The Dangers of Seeing Flirting as an IOU
Nov. 12th, 2017 12:42 amMostly, this started out as an analysis of why we misremember Captain Kirk so much and then turned into an analysis of Dagger of the Mind somehow. I don't know.
Mostly, this started out as an analysis of why we misremember Captain Kirk so much and then turned into an analysis of Dagger of the Mind somehow. I don't know.
Well, it’s official now. I feel like a bit of a jerk.
This doesn’t happen very often (thankfully). I don’t think I could really live with myself if I did. But I was that jerk who thought (not posted, as far as I remember, which at least thank goodness for that) my fandom is better than your fandom. And now I have seen Doctor Who, Babylon 5, and Star Trek, and…
I was totally and utterly wrong, please forgive me for doubting. Also, in the immortal footsteps of Detective Manners, I’ll just add I was a blank and it’s a bleep of a situation.
I’ll mostly just say that I fell in love with Star Trek’s original series after the very first season. (Maybe I’ll even be able to forgive Deep Space Nine for blatant theft when I get there.)
I mostly avoided Star Trek (barring the movie because time travel is one of my favorite things EVAR) because I fell into the Pop Culture Depicts Things Accurately trap—I thought Kirk was a womanizer.
Instead, I wonder if they were watching the same show—Kirk, the Captain Married to his Ship who yells at others (especially McCoy) for not being professional and gives a lecture on consent in the second episode? That Kirk? True, he flirts a lot, but he rarely acts on it (& half the time when he acts on it, it’s to get information/save his ship/save his crew/stop the Bad Guys). The rest of the time, he’s rather old-fashioned, looking for a relationship (which, y’know, is hard when you’re a Principled Captain who refuses to just sleep with the crew he respects, so in the end he’s rather lonely), not just a quick lay.
Something that all the shows do? They have diversity in casting AND RATHER THAN MAKE IT OUT TO BE A BIG DEAL it’s just like “wait, you noticed that? it’s just who fit the role”. Which, in my opinion and judging from my meta-lurking on the internet the opinion of not a few others, is Diversity Done Right. (I…Okay, part of it might be the fact that I tend to have issues visualizing appearance unless I’m staring right at it, but I tend to forget about it in general because it’s the character and personality I remember.) Doctor Who could use a little more diversity, but they got Torchwood and I doubt anything’s happening with the Grand Moff as showrunner. (As an aside, HE WON’T BE MUCH LONGER and I hope he takes his money and fades into obscurity because it’s not in me to wish someone dead but he reeeeeeally needs to stop being a writer and forcing his views on unsuspecting casual watchers. I did legit dance upon learning this news.)
Another something good that all the shows do? They tackle huge issues. And no, none of them, really, get writing the controversial issues perfect, but I honestly doubt there’s a perfect way to write controversial issues, and for the most part they make you think (see Dr. Franklin’s personal issues leading to Interludes & Examinations and Walkabout or the Doctor’s (several) speeches on protecting humanity because they’re flawed in huge, terrible ways but they have so much hope and potential). They usually don’t comment on the “right” thing unless it’s Kirk’s speech about consent or the Doctor’s issues with guns and violence in general. The thing is, to start the conversation, to show that some things are just not done by civilized people (I’m still wigged out by The Enemy Within but it got me thinking and it was so bold compared to, well, you wouldn’t see these things today and just hear the discussions rather than having it actually in the show to talk about. And we need to talk about these things; we need to have these discussions because it’s only through understanding that we’ll get anywhere).